With your help, SafeHouse Denver provides emergency shelter, extended stay housing, non-residential advocacy-based counseling, and more to survivors of domestic violence and their children. Our ability to provide these often life-saving services for free is possible because of the generosity of our community. Thank you for considering a donation!
Testimonials
Can I tell you a story? I want to share so that it might help others. When I tell my story, I start by saying…
It happened to me.
We were friends first. Then it became more and we started making plans to retire together. I had worked so long and already raised a family. I was ready to settle down, so I moved to Texas with him. I started noticing changes in his behavior: verbal shaming, gaslighting, overreacting. He would ignore me if I didn’t do as he asked. Then he cut me off financially.
If I didn’t conform, I’d be punished.
I found out he was unfaithful. I felt so stupid for believing that he was the one. I was ashamed. I just kept trying to understand him to try to change how I behaved. I came home one day and he pushed me with his chest. He says that never happened.
Another time, I woke up on the floor and didn’t remember how I got there. To this day, I still don’t know.
My daughter flew in and we packed my things. I never felt safe in Texas, but I heard that Colorado was safe. We drove as far as we could in three days.
I just wanted to find a safe place.
Once I was connected to SafeHouse Denver, all of the signs pointed to safety. My Advocate was the only person I talked to for so long. I had recurring nightmares - a lot of fears, so I didn’t leave the house. COVID normalized that, but my isolation was out of fear. SafeHouse Denver taught me so much – not just about how to heal, but about myself.
It’s euphoric, the confidence that SafeHouse has given me.
Now I have a good job and I don’t have to look over my shoulder all the time. I may have taken the most difficult route, but it was worth it.
When you think of “why” this work needs to be done, think of me. I am proof that healing is possible.
I can’t imagine having to go through this process without SafeHouse by my side. There are a lot of us survivors out there, and I am so glad SafeHouse is here. They have earned their name – they truly are a safe house!Thank you for the opportunity to share my story, and for supporting SafeHouse Denver.
With deep gratitude,
Melanie G.